Pretty weird happening :? - need some advice

[logimastertech]

Well lately I have been in a pretty good mood, and it was all fine until today. It started out this morning that I went to my neighbors football game and watched him play quarterback. He is very good but on one play he had to run the ball or get sacked. It then happened that in a blink of an eye, he was down on the ground and we found out that he had a broken fibula(?) So today had gotten me down because he is going to struggle for a while with that broke. Later, I went home and had dinner, and fell asleep for an hour. I wake up and my mom and step dad come back from a picnic. Then they hit me with it, and I find out that my real dad is now moving. For this time/over the last year, I haven't really seen him just like when I lived with him and never really saw my mom. This worked out fine because when my mom moved over the years that I have been with my dad, they were close in driving distance and got to see them both. So now I am faced with something weird. I realize that my dad is moving into New Jersey and I am stuck in Reading, PA... The problem is driving distance, I don't know if I am going to really see my dad ever again because of this move. If I was to say move to a closer distance between them, it would be fine but it doesn't work out at all right now. Today has really brought me down and with in the next 4 - 6 weeks, I only have a chance to do some things. One thing I could do is spend the weekends at my dads while also packing my stuff at the same time. That or I just stay at my moms and see my friend who needs my help.

I am really depressed at the moment and I am not sure what to do. Can someone please give me advice of what to do?

[AfroLH]

Take a Pencil and Paper.
Write down your feelings.
Then draw a picture.

Focus all of your being into making that picture.
After you are done, look at the picture.
Just stare at it and let it imprint on your soul.

Then take it, fold it up, and put it somewhere safe.


After all of that, try and do something you like to do,
whether it be writing music, playing an instrument, writing, drawing or anything that keeps your brain occupied.

After a while you will forget about it, and you will be able to move on.

As for the driving problem, I really have nothing.
But, as with most things you feel strongly about, I have a feeling you will figure something out.

When you are passionate/feel strongly about something, you tend to try to figure things out.

[samjc3]

do what afro said! that is great advice!
the only thing i could add, is find someone to talk to, be it a friend, relative, pastor, hobo, etc. talking about my problems works wonders for me.

[joeyjoe9876]

this may be kinda wierd but listening to some very dark heavy metal always puts me in a better mood :/

[XCVG]

Get as much booze as you can and get *really* drunk!

Seriously though, that's harsh. Sorry I can't offer any advice, nothing that bad has happened to me.

[logimastertech]

lol, drinking doesn't solve everything, nor really anything at all? lol jk, but idk, thanks for the replys, afro's advice is helping out, and tomorow i am going to talk to my one sister about this