I think parents need to learn how to beat the crap out of their children. If I ever did anything bad (like really bad), I got a good slap or a palm to my butt (hard). Sucked bad. But hey, look at me now, I am a sane person, I love my parents for their sometimes sterness because otherwise I would never have learned what is right and wrong and how to control myself.
If you are reading this and thinking, ``He said parents need to learn how to beat the crap out their children`` And then you think I actually mean to beat up children on a daily basis, you are wrong.
If you hit a child or punish them to get a point across, thats fine. If you do anything further other than to get the point across, then you are abusing your child.
If a kid (in this case, lets use me, a guy, as an example) is in the store crying and wailing because he cant get his candy or something, let him know you wont take that crap, that you are the boss, and when you say no, you mean it. If he still does it, grab him by the arm and tell him to stop again. Then after that (if it still persists) go ahead and slap the brat. Worked for me, and it shut me up.
Hahaha, that reminds me, anyone read something on these lines from Maddox? If you dont know what Maddox is, dont worry you will eventually find out from someone at school. Just dont go to the website at school, or work, or at home if your parents are really strict.
When in Japan with access to just about every system ever made and those that have yet to see international soil, gather your forces, and make the cool ones your own.
When in Japan with access to just about every system ever made and those that have yet to see international soil, gather your forces, and make the cool ones your own.
I dont agree with that, any psychical contact to a child that hurts the child is child abuse, I don't let it happen to me, its not fair, they shouldn't picking on people a lot younger that them.
Last edited by Unidentified Assilant on Sun Mar 13, 2005 8:03 am, edited 1 time in total.
Somebody please buy my Dreamcast >_> £20+shipping
But parents are NOT picking on children when they discipline them. There is a difference between picking on a child and giving them dome discipline. When you discipline a child, you are teaching them, usually through negative reinforcement not to do what they are doing at that time. Negative reinforcement is anything from scolding a child with words and hitting them. What you do to your child is based on your views. However, the most effective way to get them to stop is to make them feel on various levels. From my example ealier stated, my mother not only told me twice but then later hit me (because I persisted). The words I ignored, so what are you going to do when your child ignores one level. You mak their sensory perception feel more, with words and a good sting. That way you literally ``Drive the message home`` by enforcing on two levels; verbal and physical, thus getting the most thought out response from your brain as to what you are really doing. Study some psychology.
I think that hitting a child is great when the time calls for it, thats called parenting (in my book, my parents book, my families book, and my friends book).
When in Japan with access to just about every system ever made and those that have yet to see international soil, gather your forces, and make the cool ones your own.
Unidentified Assilant wrote:any psychical contact to a child is child abuse...
If you really mean that, then what about a kiss or a hug. That is physical contact. If you edit your post to be more specific as to what kind of physical contact, I will delete this post.
When in Japan with access to just about every system ever made and those that have yet to see international soil, gather your forces, and make the cool ones your own.
