here is an update for saturday. this is just the dvd drive, i'm in the process of desoldering the sata HDD and the dual front USB. I'll post pics of that later. here is the drive before being hacked for the dvd unit.

had to take off all four posts and two nubs to make it sit flush to the bottom.

here i used two screws to secure it inside so it won't slide around.
right now i've completed making the sata and power cable longer for the dvd drive and the sata HDD cable. I am cleaning the sata HDD joints now and getting ready to solder in the cable. I still need to hack the box up to fit the fans.
here is the MB with the new heat attached (its a GPU heat sink from an older 360). i hope that a fan attached on top constantly blowing air will keep it cool enough.
EDIT:
Sunday AM
finished the cables, good that was difficult. ran out of shrink tube. too bad radio shack only includes two tubes of the size i need in the shrink tube packages.

thats all the cables i made longer or hacked together.

here is my vga cable with component and composite out. got a switch for vga/component out. i think composite(yellow) is always on.

here is the box, i used tin snips to cut the fan hole out and mounted the component/composite/audio jacks. next to it i glued the switch outside.

i figured out how to use the existing dvd control buttons for the xbox 360. i'm going to use the eject button for the same and the func button for the sync. i was thinking of using another for the power and placing the leds under the darkened screen. i'm still going to use the volume control and the headphone jack. i have an amp board from a set of desktop speakers i will wire into the 12v power. i just hope i dont fry the board. after all works inside, i'm going to pretty it up.
EDIT:
Here it is, sunday night, and now i'm stumped. I just put everything into the box after soldering up the sata HDD stuff and soldering in the new power/eject/sync button. come to find out the rf board from the old unit isnt working with the new one. I plugged in the RF unit that came with it and it works fine, aside of the RRoD. Yup, i dont know why, but its red ringing on me. didnt do it till i did this mod. must be the new heat sink with the thermal paste.
Here is a pic of the somewhat done model:

i'm tired, need a break. i just might extend the new RF module to see if it works. i still need to find a place for the audio amp.